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Single black mother says loving her child is difficult

A viral video shows a single black mom saying she can’t fully love her son because she despises his father. Ain’t that a bitch? Many of us have baby mamas and baby daddies we can’t stand. But you don’t take it out on the children. The melancholic tirade was disseminated via TikTok. “I need a break so bad and the only person that can help me is my worst enemy,” said the lachrymose damsel. “I gotta send my baby with the person I hate the most. This is a chapter in my life that will never close. This baby daddy, baby mama sh*t is not cute, bro. [It’s] a real life connection [because] you’re sharing the same legacy.” American popsies need to understand when you undergo parturition out of wedlock, you’re still tied to Pookie & Ray Ray for all eternity. Not 18 years. Forever. So stop spreading your legs and marry before you carry. Jeez, it ain’t rocket science. Some of these Western women are making it an easy decision for the Passport Bros, Passport Brad and Men On The Move to travel abroad for vulva.

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  1. Well our women were told men were nothing but sperm banks. Therefore they used them as such. It’s a strong and independent feminist mindset. And the children suffer the consequences.
    This woman is unstable, has no business raising her boy if she’s filled with displaced hatred. My mother abused my brother because he reminded her of her ex husband, our father. I looked more like her so I was spared.

  2. Pure example of deadbeat women who at some point probably going to kill their kid because they hate the father. Be smart and unass the kid to him permanently,but that’s too much like right. Because they no the father will move on with the child and probably another woman and be happy. These bleeders are out of control.

  3. We are the only culture that always trying to make bad things look good instead trying to do better and do things the right way.

  4. I’m single, no kids but I stop entertaining single mothers back in 2016! They were all saying similar things “I wish you was my baby daddy instead” or “I love my child but I regret having him/her” ..how does that even make sense? I seen a few of my friends mom talk crazy to them and I always thought that was weird!

  5. She can miss me with the tears because I don’t feel sorry for her ratchet a$$ at all.

    This is the fault of her own and other Black Women’s because they praise instead of checking.

    I’m glad that baby is out of that house because she’s clearly unfit and don’t deserve to be around any child.

    She’ll be posting more videos later on bragging about her freedom and/or getting pregnant again by another Pookie.

    Typical American Black Woman behavior and until other Women start speaking out against it instead of embracing the fuckery… nothing will change.

  6. Being a single mother is not an accomplishments!!!!! Even roaches get pregnant!!!!

  7. Freeze your sperm and get a Vasectomy. Period. You’re not a man by knocking up some Ho and not supporting the Baby. Be a man, get a job, save money and get ahead.

  8. This the same type of female that we try to give advice or an opinion on what is right or wrong, then say that we are bashing or degrading them. So let them find out for themselves. 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ Don’t and won’t feel sorry for none of them.. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  9. Don’t feel sorry for these bitches. They choose the toxicity they’re attached to. 😈Suffer, enjoy your HELL, get a cat, and die alone.

  10. Whatever with those tears.
    She knew from the start what sex could produce and women like her will STILL not take precautions such as birth control or male wearing condoms.
    This woman had to see the signs in advance.
    Hell, BW are quick to tell you about her woman intuition B.S. but I guess her intuition was off that day.
    I have no sympathy for her and others like her.

  11. A woman finaly said it. now women can stop being salty when men dont want baby-mommas. AS much as they say that mans out of their life in most cases he isnt because as long as that child exists he has a doorway to walk in and out. fuck that bro. no more baby moms bro.

  12. This young men is going to suffer mentally like I did I hated looking like my father the ASS WHOOPINS I didn’t deserve, because I look like my father. I love my mother, but she refuse to believe she messed her SONS up mentally with her words and hate towards their father. I will never HATE my childs mom and my kids suffer because they no longer wants to be with ME

  13. Here’s a tip for the women: bad boys are more likely to “beat you and disrespect you”, not hooking up with them is a good way to avoid that.

  14. Fuck a truth, if you as a woman have the audacity to say you hate your child because you hate his father, you are not a good mother or a good person and you don’t deserve to be with anybody that child didn’t ask to be here you chose to have unprotected sex now do what us men have to do in any situation…….DEAL WITH IT😑

  15. Misery loves company so women will know the results are going to be negative and will still send their daughters, sisters,friends down the same bad path. My ex use to say she’ll burn the house down with everyone in it, if it meant she’d feel good in the moment smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

  16. This is scary, she sounds like she may kill her son then herself.👀

  17. We all know what these modern-day airhead stubborn narcissistic feminists females wombat gremlins hyena banshees pregnant and/or not spewing dumbass word vomit…” it’s my body, my choice.” bullshit! Obviously it’s alarmingly important of a Good Man in the household with a Good Lady raising their children together a Nuclear Family Unit. Go ahead die on that Narcissism Hill of wanna have the last word stubbornness and disrespectful negative psychopaths/sociopaths satanic/demonic behavior. The delusions of grandeur exceeded and transcended beyond person’s/people’s Skintones no matter where you’ll come form around the globe. That’s exactly why ORDER & RULES are important key factors so chaos and destruction of planet Earth doesn’t occur. Let’s all together… Make BLACK Nuclear Families Great Again!¡!

  18. This is the result of living up to ho culture. We need to purge this from our community

  19. She said she had NO one to help her. Where’s her family, and all her friends? Whatever happened to “It takes a village??”
    Why would anyone think they could raise a child completely by themselves and not eventually go batty or wind up abusing the kid(s)?

  20. This woman is disgusting I have a kid with a woman that I can’t stand but I have no problem going to see my daughter it don’t bother me the least to see her mom I pay her no attention 😅

  21. As a mother, and yes single by choice, how could you ever fit your mouth to say you hate your child, bc of the father…you need your a* whooped. As a grown woman you made your choice, I’m sure the father was a a*hole the entire time, which made you a bigger a*hole for dealing with him, babies don’t keep a man, it can either change them for the better or really bring out the true colors they were already showing. For those who don’t have kids, please, I mean please and respectfully stfu. Whether your married, been dating your high school sweetheart, or just dating period, you would NEVER know exactly who you’re dealing with until you have kids with that person. I do not condone in being anyone’s “baby mama” yet, the peace I have with my son is the greatest blessing and lesson that God could have ever given me. When you see older women being single moms, doctors, and etc and they are happy being that, trust me they are in peace with that. You don’t never know anyone’s situation, they probably had difficulties making children or couldn’t carry long enough, and once they did, the child could of been simply all they wanted. While your young, yes enjoy your life and take your time, yet remember when you taking birth control and getting abortions and then “BOOM” you can’t have kids when you ready, let’s see how you feel and how much your husband will change because you can’t carry. From the looks of this video, which she should of combed her damn hair before looking like a bigger fool to record this s*, she is mad with herself and taking it out on her son and that’s not fair to him. He didn’t choose to be here and it’s not his fault that obviously the relationship didn’t work out. If a grown ass man still bragging about taking your virginity and all that other b.s. IK for sure he was an a*hole before you got pregnant. I pray that she is not abusing him because of and if she is, I pray that God will take him out of that situation.

  22. First of all you choose to lay down with this man and have his child that poor baby had nothing to do with that he didn’t asked to be here how dare you take out your fk frustration out on him your a poor excuse for a women……..you don’t deserve to be a mother!!!

  23. I’m confused, how yall have babies by men & not know a man’s character/personality? Please defend it…

  24. I always ask teens that want a baby this question…”Do you like babysitting?” It doesn’t matter how they reply…whether ‘yes’ or ‘no’ because my next comment is always..”cause when you have a baby, it’s like babysitting the REST OF YOUR LIFE!”. That’s usually all it takes for them to have second thoughts.

  25. Wow, what a cry baby lol. She needs to put her big girl panties on and grow up! Sometimes, life doesn’t go the way you expect it to, but you make the best of it and keep moving forward.

  26. to me this is selfish and how can u say u can’t fully love your kid because of your own decision in the past. The only thing u are doing is hurting the kid. U don’t want or love your kid give up your rights. Do be part of this child life instead of going online and letting the world know u can’t love your kid. I’m a single mother and yes is hard but not impossible and no i don’t have family help but never have i felt this way. I been hurt i been betrayed but shit we are grown so let’s act like it. 10 years ?? Let that shit go. I know that if something like this was going on with my kid, being late to school or child neglect i would be taking action because I want what’s best for my kids. When this lady says she can’t maybe letting go of her kid it’s best. Maybe another family can give the love and support this kid needs since she can’t. Just saying. A lot of ppl out there that can’t have kids and she’s acts like this because of how she feels for a man. It’s about the kid not u and how u feel. Do what’s best for the child.

  27. Why the hell is she whining?!? Is that necessary to get a point across ?

  28. Parenting is hard single or married! Children are always a blessing!!! This woman has mental issues PERIOD!!!!

  29. I will walk past my exwife and not speak like she’s a total stranger and we were together 21yrs. (I find it easier to just ignore her ass and her b.s.) but our 3 sons. Those MY boys Idgaf how much I dont want anything to do with there moms. NOTHING will ever stop the love I have for my children. Those men are my seeds, my legacy, cut from my cloth. This woman is a loon! Hope baby daddy play this vid in family court and get 100% custody. Make the psycho pay child support!!!

    If you mad with the school bus driver dont take it out on the school nurse idiot…lol.

  30. This is just embarrassing.. social media has given people no shame.
    On the other hand, I’m glad she put this out there so the father can show this to the court on how unstable and crazy she sounds.
    I hope he gets custody of his son

  31. These comments are sad AF. Everyone is saying she doesn’t need custody and she doesn’t love him, but the father has rights that he isn’t exercising. If HE loved his son he would be fighting for him to live with him. I’m not saying her bad choices are acceptable, but she doesn’t lay down alone.

  32. LET’S JUST KEEP IT ALL THE WAY REAL…….WOMEN WHO HAVE KIDS AND RESENT THEM ONLY HAD THEM TO KEEP THE MAN…………REAL MOTHER’S COULD GIVE A FK LESS IF THE FATHER THEIR OR NOT OR IF WE SPEAK TO THEM OR NOT………..HOW CAN YOU GROW A LITTLE PRECIOUS BABY FOR 9 MONTHS THEN NOT LOVE OR LIKE IT………THAT ONLY HAPPENS WHEN THEY TRY AND USE THE CHILD TO MANIPULATE THE MAN AND THEY START HATING THE CHILD WHEN THEY SEE IT DID NOT WORK……….STRONG SINGLE MOTHERS MADE A BAD DECISION YES BUT OUR CHILDREN WILL NEVER PAY FOR WHAT WE DECIDED TO DO……..BABY MAMAS THO THEY DGAF BIRTH CONTROL IS OUT THERE IF YOU’RE NOT READY TO BE A PARENT

  33. The relationship with the father ended when she told on herself and the best friend. The fact that he went on with his Life and she is single 10 years later is killing her. My ex wife cheated on me, kicked me out and got pregnant from the other dude. My “revenge was moving on and starting a family with another wife while dude used her and once the money was gone, bounced”. She tried to come back when she was pregnant and I said no. 15 years later, I rarely talk to my daughter because she hates me. I’ve been to court, fought for custody, etc. Now I’m at peace with knowing I will never be whole. She took my baby from me. Damn, at peace but still hurt. Wanted to cry as I typed this.

  34. Fellas, start using these crying videos as evidence in court to get your child!! These women are not stable and will eventually delete the child

  35. She is in a danger zone and doesn’t think or see a way out right now. This woman is being so truthful that I feel her pain. It may be the best thing for her to let the father have him for awhile if not permanently, my heart breaks for her. I hope she finds a way to let the father know he needs to step in and care for the child. I hope that she gets help with her child and help for herself.

  36. A lot these kids are held due to financial gain trust me if welfare wasn’t giving out X amount dollars for kids most these women wouldn’t have kids

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