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Eboni claims single ladies better settle or stay lonely
Eboni says women should settle.
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NEW YORK — When dissin’ blue-collar men goes terribly wrong. Eboni K. Williams, the gold digging barrister who once said she wouldn’t marry a bus driver ’cause he don’t make enough money, is back-pedaling like a mofo. Now she’s admitting single ladies should pursue wedding rings in conjunction with college degrees, even if it means settling for second-tier prospects. If you recall, cross-dressing filmmaker Tyler Perry echoed a homogeneous sentiment. The Madea thespian said women should be satisfied with men paying the light bill only. Then there’s the issue of duration. It’s Eboni’s assertion a man’s socioeconomic status improves with age whereas a woman’s biological clock equates to depreciation. In other words, ladies age 40 and older have diminutive value in the dating market. The prepossessing attorney disseminated her thoughts via Instagram.
“As black men age, their desirability increases thus their optionality of women is always expanding, and the exact opposite is true for black women,” Eboni, 40, explained. “As we age, doesn’t matter how much money we accumulate, our degrees or professional accolades, the reality is that our marriage and partnership market value is depreciating with every passing year. No matter how good we look, no matter how fit we are, men are still seeing primarily our presumed dwindling fertility as a knock against us.”
Social media reaction was unforgiving. One commenter wrote, “Let western women dig their own graves.” Another chimed in with, “It’s sad that American women have to listen to this 304’s advice.” A third viewer added, “She changed her tune due to hitting the wall and realizing there’s a small pool of eligible bachelors.” Eboni was quick to point out black chicks are graduating from college at a higher rate than their male counterparts. Only problem is African American women lead the nation in student loan debt.
Yikes!
Not to mention, lots of dudes are certified tradesmen earning big bucks despite not having a college degree.
For instance, plumbers have fat pockets.
Ditto for carpenters and electricians.
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Should western women return to a more traditional role?
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She hit the THE WALL 😂
The reality is finally settling in 😂😂😂
Soooo, she finally admitted what men have been saying for decades.
It’s time for a change, it’s not natural to choose a dusty. Also, college isn’t the only way to get your bag.
Our Market value? Are we seriously commodifying Black women?
POLYGAMY IS COMING BACK 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Nah, they should all hold out for their 6’6″ billionaire.
No, she still wouldnt date the bus driver believe dat….its sad yall got a hard on because she said a small truth…sad men
The wall is undefeated and women should always know that.
This is the saddest message I’ve seen in a long time. This message discourages black women from pursuing education and accomplishment and asks them to redirect their efforts to compete more heavily for the small population of college educated men. This is so sad. My sisters find a better spokesperson ❤️
She ain’t lying
I got married in my 30s after getting my Ph.D. While I understand the point, I think we need to be careful advising women to “hurry up and get married”. Rushing into marriage can come with its own set of issues.
As a Black woman who has been married and holds two degrees. Don’t be pressured into what society thinks you should do. Do what you want to do.
The whole country has faced the fact that college is mostly a scam. And black women still think it’s a ticket to heaven.
Ladies, she just played you mentally .😮 ✌🏾
I have a BS in Electrical Engineering and an MBA and I make way more as a content creator than I ever did as an engineer!
I don’t necessarily disagree with this take, the numbers and real life examples back it up. However, why are these conversations always geared towards Black women and NEVER Black men? These kinds of videos and online conversations feel click baity and it’ll certainly spark online outrage, the comments already show that, but let’s have more productive holistic convos. Scolding/lecturing Black women about dating is getting old.
Trouble with the ladies returning to traditional life is that men have seen how women truly are when they get a little bit of power. They played themselves.
those useless degrees are what women have business management
All married people are aware that there is no such thing as a “soul mate”, because in order to find a spouse we all have to settle…..I know modern 👩🏽 women have made settling a derogatory term, but that is what anyone who wants long-term commitment must do. Women that find it hard to settle down with 1 spouse float around like that feather in Forrest Gump their entire lives until they end up buying a 🐶 and dying 🪦 alone
THIS HAS TO BE SOME AI SHIT!!! AINT NO WAY SHE GONNA COME RIGHT BACK AND SWITCH IT ALL UP.
These evil feminist hyenas forget that old saying, “chicken always come home to roost” back to the house they came from is where they return.. Feminist chickens are coming home to roost in droves it’s winter 🥶 out here in relationship land for American Black Women.
I be on some of these social media sites and realize you hear a lot of women speaking on men but you rarely hear them speak on the character, morals, and values of a man. Not even his personality outside of be funny. Idk man, I’m starting to understand how pimps been so successful for so many centuries. Women seem more incapable of compassion or love more and more on these apps man. Shit is sad
Lol why tell these modern women to lower their ridiculous standards when their personality isn’t even worth dealing with anyway ?
looks like reality and logic gave her a good ass whooping
I’m a 55 yr old Single Black Male, $200K+ a year income, and grown kids. I attract women in their 30s to 60s, even a few in their 20s who want me to be their Sugar Daddy. To my older single brothas, get your health in check. You may have more despoiled income now, but if your noodle is limp because of Low T, diabetes, obesity or high blood pressure, you won’t keep those young women. Update that wardrobe. Check out Steve Harvey
Black women are awful
Kevin Samuels used to give young women the exact same advice he also called out older women for not being honest and warning younger women not to make the same mistakes they made that led to being too old single and childless. So I have to give Eboni K Williams some credit and some props for admitting her bad life choices especially after her viral bus driver video. Ebony even use the same terminology Kevin used (i.e. woman’s market value). Now watch all the black women attack her and call her a “pick me”.
Women in general get less desirable as they get older. I think she messed up by only trying to speak to blk women when she should have said this to all women. We also didn’t need the blk women vs. blk men talk constantly. It’s getting old. I have married ppl around me and I’m not going to ask an unmarried woman what I should do with that part of my life.
BW- I don’t need a man, but why aren’t you protecting us. BW-” I am the table” but you need to make 6 figures and take care of me and bring everything, and I’m not paying anything” BW have made themselves single by pursuing finances of men, valuing education over values, and thinking they they have something no other women have. A lot are basic, made-up, fake, dirty, unattractive, ran thru, overvalued, and determined to think that BM should adore them. BW are becoming the least desired of any man of value, and there’s more BW than BM. What are these 304’s smoking across the spectrum???
I use to adore Eboni K Williams, until she got her own show and started showing us who she really is 😕
Who the heck wants 40 something year old cat with a bad attitude? Everybody swam in that pool and no one wanted to stay in it. There’s younger hotter women with better attitudes. These black women have no idea what’s coming. It’s going to come to a point where they have no choice but to realize they are unwanted and will see many men in happy relationships while the black women will only be going to dinner with other women (like they do now) and their mothers.
If she has “hit the wall” I want to hit the walk too bc she is beautiful and looks about 30 not 40. She def. puts most women in their 20s to shame which is why she infuriates black men so much. They can’t call her ugly or undesirable like they do to most black women. They can just mumble stuff about her age when they know most black men would see her as a prize regardless just based on her phenotype (light skin, long straight hair, keen facial features, thin).
THEIR Degrees aren’t worth the ink.
She still refuse to admit how black women are far to overweight and that older women don’t look as good as their younger counterparts.
Even the bus driver got more options with age. Right, Ms. Eboni?🙃🥴😂
She got daddy issues
It’s kinda funny they think they only need sperm. Statistically black single mothers are the most destructive force in a child’s life. All single mothers Statistically struggle but the failure rate isn’t the same. Child abuse, failure to launch, juvenile delinquency, violence, failing school, dealing drugs or theft all are about 5x more likely with single mothers over single fathers.
Did someone throw a red pill on her face with a slingshot? 😂😂😂
The reason why there are more BW in college than BM is because of blue collar jobs.
I just turned the big 4-0 over a month ago & yeah, i got all types of chix looking at me left & right way, way more often than they did back in my 20s & a portion of my 30s. The odds are truly in a man’s favor as we age. We can basically take our pick. Ladies, you had ur chance to pick a solid man & lock him down when you were younger but sadly a lot of you chose degeneracy over decency & screwed urselves over. Cant blame anyone but the woman in the mirror.
The delusion of a college degree equal money and status or smarter than everybody else is foolery. college is intended for you to have a career in specific fields where it is required within a system. If you come from another country with a college degree it’s not accepted..many men and women have made lots of money without it.
Brothers, it is too little too late. Even Eboni will only be ignored. Remember when Eboni said “… only if you own the bus”?? Well Brothers, even if she has changed, doesn’t mean that others have. They are looking for you to own that Bus! Guess what, overseas, you don’t need to own that Bus, but you will be treated and do well enough to own a whole fleet of Buses (just an analogy!). Joking aside, Brothers, you can be treated and live like a King of your household. Don’t waste one more moment. It’s Passport Time.
Guys invest in anti-depressant pills ,buy and sell. These ladies are gonna feed on them like wild dogs nearing the next ten years.
Shout out to Kevin Samuels!! RIP Godfather. Your wisdom and logic will live on forever.
It’s crazy because he’s been saying this the whoooooole time and so many women, I’m sure Ebony to, had so much push back, but now all of a sudden…..THEY ARE ENLIGHTENED and get it. Smmfh. Oh well! Stay strong fellas. Stay on your square. Build yourself up. Set your standards and find your one. No matter the ethnicity.
American women are not wife material
Black women don’t like black men. I hopped on a dating app called BLK predominantly black. Only white women show interest on that black dating app. I’m not an ugly man that’s the funny part. Maybe I’m intimidating to black women and I’m fit got my shit together. White women don’t care. They be on it.
Women are in this predicament because they are making emotional decisions as opposed to logical ones. Carry on.
Eboni K only speaks for young black women marrying RICH black men. If you’re an average man she is NOT endorsing marriage for black women. People better understand what she is really saying. Period. She hit her wall or whatever but trust and believe it’s not the average man she is talking about young black women should marry. Check out all of her interviews. Listen to what she’s saying. 💯
I would scoop her up she is hella beautiful