Olivia: Don’t lie to women, honesty is the best policy

Olivia says watch your mouth.

Blog King, Mass Appeal

SEATTLE — Fellas, have you ever said something to your woman that you wish you could take back? Are you adept at lying and love bombing to manipulate her ass? If so, you may want to take another course of action. That’s because a viral video shows “Blueprint” author Olivia Alexa warning us men to watch what we say because the tongue is a lethal weapon. It’s called linguistic relativity. In the podcast, the prepossessing redbone made it crystal clear once you call a woman a “dumb bitch” or a “silly hoe” she may forgive. But she’ll never forget. Your relationship will never be the same. Instead, start telling babygirl the truth. If you don’t think she’s relationship material, and she’s only good for a quick piece of ass, let her know. Life is short. “There’s something I want you to understand about language and psychology,” Olivia said. “Language isn’t just words, it’s a weapon. The words you choose have the power to shape your mind and your reality. How you speak about the world is how you start to perceive it. This is why lying isn’t just deceit, it’s self-destruction. You can’t use language to manipulate without corrupting yourself.”

Olivia said it’s perfectly normal to eschew veracity to safeguard someone’s feelings. Case in point: If your corpulent woman asks if she looks fat in a dress, always reply “no.” There’s obviously nothin’ wrong with keeping the peace. As long as we don’t overdo it. “We hide behind euphemisms and soft language in relationships to avoid facing harsh realities,” Olivia explained.

“A woman might say she wants to take a break instead of admitting that she’s losing interest. A man might call a relationship ‘complicated’ when he’s avoiding commitment. These terms are a crutch, allowing people to run from honesty and clarity. Avoiding clear and straightforward language in relationships causes misunderstanding and resentment, which is why hiding the truth can be so dangerous. People need to grow thicker skin. That’s the only way to build strong authentic relationships based on trust and honesty.” 

Social media reaction was priceless.

One commenter wrote, “You know what kills my connection with women? Fake ass hair!”

Another chimed in with, “Men and women can’t be honest. Most people are settling with someone to avoid being alone, turning a blind eye to every flaw. The best people for relationships are those who have no interest in reality, no interest in facts, and no interest in truth. It’s called pollyannism — only seeing the good while completely ignoring the bad like it’s not even there.”

A third viewer added, “Women can’t handle the truth, but can dish it out.😁😁😁”

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Watch babygirl keep it 💯.

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